Friday, November 28, 2008

a slap

I had a catch up convo at nursing chat room last night. The environment was unrestricted, what do you expect from a public domain? The conversation’s more often than not goofing around and the shaggy dog story. It’s habitually initiated with the ritualistic hi-hello but then last night it progressed to a not-so-good segment …
Miss: oh sunny
Sunny: oh miss, holla Jean Doe
Miss: yep
Sunny: Jean Doe the “Maharot”, lol
Miss: you’re harassing me, nuisance
Sunny: huh?


a slap


Let’s define the term “maharot”. I “goggled” (slang term if you used the google’s search engine) about it and obviously there’s no exact definition of that word, it’s just my idiot feat. So basically “mararot” is a slang pinoy term for a flirtatious act. This isn’t only used for women but also for men. This word was also exploited as an album title of a pinoy rock band. Based from the context on how I used “maharot” in our yak was only to describe her characteristics of being teasing. She said that her “true” personality is entirely different from how she project on the chat world. That’s it.

The virtual world of “chat” is different from the world according to your angle of reality. Why so serious honey? I just made my objective remark; my point is neither an absolute statement nor a reduction of her personality

. Then after some sorts of negotiations (lol), the issue proceeded to insensitivity. The simple equation was formulated, objective remark equals to insensitivity. On that ground, I quit the convo because it was totally pointless!

A slap of reality


My pointless points are here: we usually associate objective remarks to insensitive remarks because the frigging reality hurts and we don’t want gobble it. Reality hurts amigo! In the context of sociology, most pinoys are not used to direct/objective comments; we want the candy thing that’s why it’s hard to digest reality in an instant. And obviously some want their

achy heart to jump off from their chests and then slap their cold faces with a boiling reality

. Whew! That’s all, another dose of thoughtless thoughts.


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19 comments:

OR said...

ehem... kala ko about sa convo with sis eh. lol.

kosa said...

hahaha..
oo nga, anu ba yung maharot na yan? madalas kong madinig nun yan pero di ko alam kung anung ibig sabihin nun? pagkain ba yun? lols

ako pangalawa..lols

faye said...

kc naman tinawag mong maharot...iba-iba ang dating nyan for each of us..lalo na pag mainit ulo..okey lng sana if cool yung tao ..wahhh anyway ,,,tapos an yung maharot....weeehhh lol

sunny said...

@ OR,lol bukas n lang yun,hehehehehe! fullpldged toot!,lol

@ kosa, sige kainin mo kosa ang maharot,lol

filthyroom said...

faye, hehehehehe! usual goofy convo tlga faye but she just cant take the reality,lolz...she made a defesnive move,lol..anyhow my point in this post tlga eh un mahirap minsan tanggpin reality, we oughtta need a slap on our faces minsan,hehehehehe!

OR said...

full pledged toot! so maharot din..

araw said...

hmmm...wala ko sinabe...wahahaha! lol inamin b n maharot? lolz, ako minsan lang.waheheheheheheh!

chubskulit said...

Ako very passive ako sa mga ganyang biro if it comes from close friend pero pag hindi at tatawagin akong maharot eh talagang gigirahin ko hahahaha.. chill out!

Joops said...

its actually not bad, but if you call her a slut then that's another angle hehehe... Just ignore her man, you can't win with girls like her... And you're right, reality hurts..

misty said...

harutan naman ngayon hahha... harotin mo kaya padi lol..

out of topic to, i tried visiting kosa's blog but all i can see is the header... y??? nabibisita mo baya ining blog nya?

emben said...

maharot tawag sakin kc makulit ako ehehehehe, if sa girl cguro iba eheheh, depends sa tao na lang

OR said...

di ko alam. hehe! depende sa situation ung interpretation ng word na maharot.

sarap mag chill ngaun... may na DL ako na jazz music. ;)

sunny said...

@ chubs, heheheehehe! yup, i knw how to lvel up my biro with others, one thing that i noticed was that when it comes to objective comments eh nahihirapan,lol kasi most jokes are the reality,lol!

@ joops, diff angle of reality,hehehehe!

@ misty, yep, nabubuksan ko blog ni ka kosa! un sa blogspot nia, dun n un tirahan nia.

filthyroom said...

yep embem, di ko lang maget kung bakit ibang tao inaacetp nila un act nila as maharot but un term eh ayaw, another point is alam pa nila n cht lang at iba daw sila sa personal eh bakit napakaseryso sa comment ko eh yun nmn tlga pinpakita nia,lol!

Amorgatory said...

@SIS OR, pgkagcing ko palang nagchek agad akow nang blog,lol,, akala kow ung sa senado kahapon , at na headline na tayo, buahahha!!buti nalang pala iba,lol..

@pre sunny, lol..buti pare wla ako dun kagabi, kasi if andun ako, hinarots ko na din un,lol..ganyan lang talaga cguro, iba't iba ang takbo nang utaks nang mga tao, meron minsan na ayus lang meron din minsan hindi, ako ok lang lage,wag lang sa hindi ko ka closan kasi world war 5 na,lol..murning!

araw said...

amor, kala ko sa precinto lang, napunta n pala sa Senado! heheheehe! thanks for droppin by amor! good am!

Amorgatory said...

sa senado na para umangat konte ang lebel kow,wakakak

OR said...

akala ko din sis eh. lol. wait na lang natin ung hearing sa case natin. :P

sunny said...

lol....Amor at Or,lol! maisampa nga un kaso nio,lol!